Santa Monica Beach from the Annenberg

The ISES May event was held at the recently (opened to the public!) Annenberg Beach House in Santa Monica! And WOW what a beautiful venue! And the stories!?!?! The best gossip the history of Hollywood and California have to offer!
We were able to take a tour of the entire space, from the outdoor patios to the pool to Marion Davies Guest House (which is just beautiful!).

Annenberg Pool

Food was provided by Feast, and these fantastic beach-inspired centerpieces were created by GDDesigners. The steel drum band was provided by Leonard Neil productions, and the photography was done by Raul Villarreal.

Floral Arrangements by GDDesigners

We had several speakers talk about the benefits of joining ISES (our membership renewals are in June!) as well as more fun facts about Mr. William Hearst and his very young and talented mistress Marion Davies.
I recently joined the Communications team of ISES with Director Paula Estes. Together we are formulating some amazing things to achieve this year through the Communications team, so if you’re interested in getting more involved with ISES, we would love to have more members helping us out! Check out our new Facebook and Twitter page, just some of the many things we’ll be implementing as the year goes on.
See you on June 23rd at Raleigh Studios in Manhattan Beach!

“Get Pampered” was a women’s event featuring non-profit Girls Inc. of Greaterh Los Angeles to promote women’s health, beauty, and wellness. Attendees enjoyed relaxing treatments like manicures, facials, meditation exercises with a real Yogini, and even professional image consultations.

Inspirational speakers shared their empowering stories throughout the event, and if guests weren’t mingling, or savoring fresh snacks, they were shopping in our Earth-friendly boutique area that included everything from organic skincare and clothes to vintage jewelry and cosmetics.

Photography: Adrienne Gunde Photography and Jeremy Chou Photoworks

You’ve just been asked to be a bridesmaid in a wedding party, congratulations! Aside from helping plan her bridal shower, helping her into her dress and standing on her side holding a 10 lb. bouquet, here are some other helpful tips that you could use to make sure your bride doesn’t turn into “Bridezilla” during the wedding process.

1. Help her find “The Dress”

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Agreeing with every dress choice and chiming in about how beautiful the extra tulle makes her look isn’t helpful. Bring a camera to take photos of the bride in each dress she tries on to give her a better idea of the fit. Also be there to step in whenever a pushy salesperson is trying to sell the bride a “one of a kind” avant-garde dress that’s worth 3 arms and a leg. This process should be a fun, adventurous, bonding discovery for you and the bride.

2. Help with the Gift Registry!

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Most men dread being in any store all day. Help out the groom and bride by volunteering to help her set up appointments and scan wedding presents. Make sure she is choosing reasonable items to use and also some fun things too.

3. Be the Wedding Representative!

So now that we’ve all learned about napkin etiquette, we can graduate to properly setting up a table! Fun Fun!

Writing Credit to www.napkinfolding.net.

There are a lot of variations in the way one can set up a table. The setup is dependent on what is being served and the formality of the meal. The following are guidelines and pictures for general table setting.

The following are the items included in the left photo listed in order from left to right: salad plate, bread plate, napkin, salad fork, dinner fork, dinner plate, dinner knife, water glass, teaspoon, soup spoon and wine glass in the upper right.

Table Setting Guidelines

Writing credit and Photos given to www.NapkinFoldingGuide.com

About Napkins:

Today, discriminating hosts and hostesses have a wide variety of napkin products from which to select. For formal dining, there is the cloth napkin, the paper napkin being reserved for more informal settings.

Cloth napkins come in several sizes, each size tailored to a specific use. A beverage napkin, used when serving drinks and hors d’oeuvres, like most cloth napkins, is square, about five inches to each side. A luncheon napkin is a couple of inches larger, and a dinner napkin larger still. The theory, evidently, is that the more food and drink that is served, the more potential there is for spillage, so the bigger the napkin must be to catch it.

Cloth napkins may be purchased in a rainbow of colors and a variety of fabrics, imprinted with custom designs and monograms, and can even come with matching tablecloths. However, a high-thread-count, white, linen or linen-cotton mix damask napkin is still considered the zenith of elegance.

Though a wedding reception should be considered a formal occasion, only the very wealthy can afford to have a catered meal for scores of guests, one that is served on fine place settings where cloth napkins have been set out. An acceptable cost-cutting compromise for big celebrations including weddings is to use a paper napkin whose size, heft, and finish resemble a cloth napkin. They can be ordered embossed with the bride and groom’s monograms or otherwise tailored to the buyer’s specifications.

Napkin Etiquette:

Whether the napkin is cloth or paper, when in polite company, a napkin is to be used with a measure of etiquette, so as not to offend other diners through a display of boorishness. (You’re excused from these rules only when the napkin you are offered is one of those flimsy little paper things that pop out of tabletop dispensers – the kind of “napkin” you cannot place on your lap expecting it to not blow away within 20 seconds; even here, however, try to keep boorish behavior in check.)

Rule 1: When you’re given a napkin, use it. Don’t let it sit beside your plate. It was given to you for wiping your face when you need to and to protect your lap from spills. Leaving it beside your plate marks you as a slob.

Rule 2: Wait for the host to pick up and unfold his napkin before you do the same with yours.

Rule 3: If the napkin is larger than your lap, fold it such that it just covers your lap.

Rule 4: In polite society, movements at the dinner table tend to be small, so don’t make any ostentatious displays like wildly shaking the napkin to open it. Just unfold it. And when you wipe your mouth, don’t use the napkin as you would a wash cloth during your morning shower; gently dab at your mouth.

Rule 5: Don’t wait for the food to be served before you open your napkin. Should your napkin still be sitting on the table when the food arrives, the server may have to create space to set your plate.

Rule 6: Should you have to leave the table during the meal, leave the napkin, loosely folded, on your seat or on the table to the left of your plate. Also put the loosely folded napkin to the left of your plate when you’re done eating, never on the plate.

Rule 7: The place for a napkin? In your lap. It is not tucked into your pants, nor does it belong tucked into your shirt collar. However, if you are in a milieu where that kind of behavior is acceptable, don’t be afraid to go along. For example, diners from Southern Italy (or southern New Jersey) have long known that a bowl of spaghetti topped with marinara sauce can be better enjoyed when you don’t have to worry about the red stuff splattering on your shirt. Many Italian and Italian-American diners therefore tuck the napkin into their collars as a matter of course. Feel free to do the same. Live! Enjoy!

But what about that waiter who carries a napkin draped over one arm? In part, it’s practicality. It’s readily available to mop up any accidental spills or other messes at your table. But the practice dates back a couple of hundred years in France; that was how waiters carried the napkins they would distribute to diners. Napkins have been in use for thousands of years.

It’s possible that cavemen at their wooly mammoth barbeques wiped the grease from their mouths using the animal’s pelt… and then rubbed it in their hair to get that suave, slicked-back look. But we don’t really know that. What we do know is that, by the Bronze Age, it’s likely something like a napkin was in use in many parts of the world. The first recorded use of the napkin was by the Romans. When that hearty eater, Buffetus Allucaneatus, reached for his napkin at the Roman dinner table, he didn’t find a cloth. What he used was some wadded up unbaked dough, which he pressed to his face. That removed whatever bits and morsels of food were sticking to it. Later, if he wished, he could bake and eat his napkin, morsels and all.

With the fall of Rome, Europe entered that slovenly, napkin-less period of the Dark Ages, with its uncouth barons and unwashed princesses wiping their hands on their tunics and mopping their faces with their shirttails and cuffs. We don’t know how knights encased in steel armor managed to wipe off their mouths.

By the time of the Renaissance, the French had a single, large communal napkin about the size of a table cloth which everyone at the table used. It may have been the precursor of the table cloth. It got smaller and smaller over the years until everyone had his own napkin. By the 1700’s, the French aristocracy had even promulgated rules of napkin etiquette, some of which we still use today throughout the Western world; e.g., we don’t blow our nose into our napkin. Or anyone else’s napkin, either.